Many Stars, One Universe

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

Top surgery is a heck of an experience


I am no expert on dang anything, but here are some things I have cherished over these past couple days of recovery:


LOOSEN THE ACE BANDAGES

The nurses made my bandages insanely tight, and I swear changing them and making it not as tight erased 85% of my pain and discomfort. Especially the struggles of trying to lie down, get up, sit, and breathe.


SOUP

I know soup is for when you are “sick,” but trust me, you’re not at 100% or even 45% after such an operation. Soup has all the necessary food groups plus liquid, and it’s important to stay hydrated. Keep eating soup! It comes in all kinds of flavors!


CHANGE POSITIONS

Sleep sitting up, then sleep in a chair or something or lying in bed. Change it up throughout the day. I noticed for me that my body decided that I need to change how I am resting sometimes so there’s not as much strain or so the pain isn’t as much. If you have a couch or reclining chair, lie there for a bit and alternate with a bed or another chair for eating. Don’t stay in the same resting/sitting position all day

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Boys Run The Riot gives me lots of feelings. No one is perfect in that manga and it hurts to read sometimes because it feels so messy and confusing but c’est la vie, hein?

It’s almost kind of… nice? Because you see so much emphasis on examples of good ways to come out, what you should do, etc. in LGBT books and fanworks nowadays and everyone is always pushing for good representation and the perfect ways to do junk but life doesn’t work that way. Sometimes you get outed and then what the trash are you supposed to do and sometimes things go way wrong and you say the wrong things and then what. And social media is messy with angry people so then what the trash do you do when that’s your entire following and you need to somehow tread that shallow water?

It’s oddly refreshing to see someone try to make a makeshift sculpture out of debris and say yeah it’s not perfect at dang all but I’m OK with this


But I can see how this manga is not for everyone lol and I bet it has made a lot of dewey eyed Tumblr kids very angry

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DID Movies #1: Split


My system and I wanted to watch and react to movies “about DID,” and I thought I would start with the most obvious choice.

Because there was apparently a petition a while back to remove this movie from all major streaming services, I had to rent it on Youtube and thusly pay money for it. Kids, bad examples exist for a reason, and if everyone genuinely thought it was bad enough to banish it from existence, then there’s your good reason for keeping it there as a bad example for people to point to and to use in discussion

Anyway, I know this is a painfully controvertial take, but I didn’t think it was that bad. I could tell the movie was at least trying to work off the new information about DID and to portray it as a relateable struggle. The alters were relateable and were all there for a reason. I desperately wanted Neat Freak Guy (I’m bad at names) to make the leap to get better because he kept going back to the therapist and trying to reach out for help but never made the first step, and it hurt me to watch. I know I’m too nice and tend to see the good in people, but I genuinely wanted Kevin’s system to embrace change.

But yeah it also had some issues to it. Mostly just in the story and presentation.

The movie didn’t feel like a horror/thriller at most times with the drama atmosphere and the bright lighting. It would go from a heartfelt scene in the literary therapy office to the kidnapped girls in a gritty basement screaming, and it felt so jarring at times. And yes though the main character and his system were relateable, they were also very obviously the antagonists of the movie, and no amount of heartfelt scenes was going to change that. I feel like it should have been more of a drama/documentary-type movie to play off those scenes with the therapist and everyone. If it stayed horror, maybe have Casey be a foil to Kevin’s system with her having DID as well. It would make sense considering she rolled very easily with the alters and got close to Hedwig, the child part. It would round out the whole thing and show there are good and bad people with systems

The therapist was a little wacky at times. She was advocating for people with DID and the new information about the conditon, but she had this odd hyper-fixation about the physical aspects (Which are a thing but not to that degree portrayed in the movie) and seeing it as a new form of human evolution. Kevin’s antagonistic alters played off this idea and tried to induce multiplicity in kidnapped teens to give them these “powers” or thusly some kind of cosmic revenge. This was an odd aspect of the plot since, in reality, the kidnapped subjects would have to be toddler age in reality, but that’s too dark to have on film (but not in my personal life lol). It would have made more sense if the therapist was the one who became unhinged and had some people doing these tests on the side or something, and Casey would have been one of them but she already had the condition. But then again, changing the story so the therapist is the antagonist would be harroingly similar to the theories that DID was a made-up disorder brought on by therapists forcing their clients to make up self states. Maybe there’s room for commentary, though?

The Beast is absolutely ridiculous. That’s all I have to say about that. I get it was supposed to represent his father and maybe there were supernatural elements naturally at play in this universe, but the Beast and his sudden appearance and everything was so out of left field.

Random closing notes

The part where Kevin responds to his full name because it was what his mom called him when she was angry was painfully relateable. Also the fact he casually comes back and is like oh isn’t it 2016 now and then has an existential crisis was really relateable to my twin alter who had the same thing happen

It felt like it was at least trying to come from a good place, but having sympatetic character be the antagonist is not how you do it. Even the best writers in the world can’t pull that kind of feat off successfully.

The sequel is superhero trash and is the real mockery of everything, in my opinion. It REALLY plays off the superhero aspect and trust me, I get it. I feel like a superhero with DID. But I also feel like the most unfortunate child alive so

Stay tuned for next time

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Roomate slice of life story where the roomates are actually the same person: one is a complete egg in denial and wracked with embarassment and the other is a confident trans person wanting to express themself and push forward out of the closet. Hilarious antics ensue as they both try to foil the other’s plans

Coming never because I can’t draw and people don’t like to read anymore

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Autigender pride flag

for anyone who doesn’t know, autigender is a term some autistic people use to describe their relationship to gender. as gender is a social construct, some autistics don’t relate to it the same way as neurotypical people, since social constructs are often harder for us to interact with or they feel alien. 

autigender isn’t usually a gender itself, it just means that one’s gender is influenced or effected by being autistic!

i didn’t coin the term or anything, i just wanted to make my own flag since none of the ones i could find had nice colours! feel free to use it, no credit needed. although if you do want to tag me in anything you use it for i’d like that! 

the individual stripes don’t have meanings but i wanted to go for a rainbow look to represent the wide spectrum of experiences autistics have with gender, plus the autistic symbol!

(truscum/exclusionists/anti-mogai do not interact, you’ll just be blocked) 

lemonthepotato
lemonthepotato

coining a term for... humankin.... no this isn’t satire please before you shit yourself listen to what I am going to say.

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Humankin is a term for nonhuman people to use to describe their kintype(s). Alters or people who generally are nonhuman may use this to describe their human kintypes that they may have. They also may use it for human past lives.

I know the flag is a little bit basic, I’m sorry.

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